Not Every Leaf Falls Because of the Tree

Not Every Leaf Falls Because of the Tree

There is a great metaphor between the trees and people. Sometimes a few leaves fall from the tree, but it is not always the fault of the tree. Similarly, it is true that when people walk away, it is not always your fault, and therefore, let the leaves fall. No matter how much a tree tries to hold a leaf, it falls off eventually.

Not all leaves fall from a tree because something is wrong with the tree. Sometimes, they fall because they are rotten, sick, or have simply reached the end of their time. In some cases, the leaf falls because of its own problems, like being damaged or unable to handle changes in the weather. Most importantly, at times, the leaf refuses to see the truth about itself or take responsibility for its part in the problem. This idea from nature teaches us something important about life and relationships: not every person who leaves does so because we did something wrong. Sometimes, people walk away because of their own issues, their unwillingness to change, or because they don’t want to face the truth and accept their fault. It is just part of life.

When people leave us, whether they’re friends, partners, or coworkers, we often start to blame ourselves. We ask, What did I do wrong? or Was I not good enough? But just like a tree isn't always responsible when a leaf falls, we’re not always to blame when someone chooses to walk away. Sometimes, people leave because they’re dealing with their own pain, hiding from the truth, or living a life they don’t want others to see. They may not want to face reality, take responsibility for their actions, or admit their mistakes. Their decision to leave often says more about their struggles than about our worth. Even after plenty of efforts to apologise and stop them from leaving, they leave eventually without giving a second thought to the good bond of friendship.

This idea shows us that endings are a natural part of life. Just like trees let go of old leaves to make room for new ones, we also have to let go of people or things that no longer help us grow because they take away our happiness and emotionally hurt us constantly. It can be hard, especially when we care deeply and have tried our best. But understanding that some people leave because they’re avoiding the truth. People leave not because we failed, but because they want to live their own lives on their own terms. They may not want to accept their mistakes, take responsibility for their actions, or let others see the truth about who they really are. Their decision to walk away often says more about what they’re avoiding than anything we did wrong.

In the end, we grow stronger when we stop holding on to what has already let go. Let the leaves fall and trust that new, better things will come in time. Therefore, let the leaves fall that cost your mental peace and take away your happiness.

Happiness is Like a Guest - A Simple Thought Inspired by Rabindranath Tagore’s Athithi

Happiness is like a guest. It comes into our lives for a little while, makes us smile, and then quietly leaves. We cannot keep it forever, just like we cannot hold on to a guest who must go. Rabindranath Tagore’s short story Athithi (which means "The Guest") shows us this idea in a beautiful way. In the story, a young boy named Tarapada comes to a kind family. They treat him with love, and for a while, everyone is happy. But one day, without telling anyone, Tarapada leaves. He loved being with them, but he could not stay in one place. He wanted to be free. Tarapada is like happiness. He came, brought joy, and left. The story helps us understand that we should enjoy happy moments while they are with us. But when they pass, we should not be sad. Just like a good guest, happiness will come again one day. This teaches us to be thankful for the joy we have, even if it doesn’t last forever.

Be Like a Seed; When Someone Tries to Compress You, You Make Your Way Out

Life is not always smooth. Many times, people or situations try to hold us back. They try to control us, limit us, or press us down with negativity, criticism, or challenges. But in those moments, we must remember to be like a seed. A seed is very small and weak in appearance. It gets buried deep under the soil. The soil covers it, presses it from all sides, and keeps it in darkness. But the seed doesn’t give up. Instead, it gathers all its strength, grows roots, and pushes upward. It breaks through the soil and comes out into the sunlight. This is the power of patience, strength, and growth. In life, too, when people try to suppress you with words, actions, or by creating difficulties, don’t give up. Build your strength silently, stay positive, and keep moving forward. Remember, pressure can’t stop a seed from growing. And pressure shouldn’t stop you, either. Be like a seed, and when someone tries to compress you, rise above, break through, and create your own path towards succe...

The Few Who Understand

Every day, we meet hundreds of people who wish us hello, hi, and bye. However, there are only a few people who can understand us in our lows and highs. In the noise of the crowd, we often feel lost, drifting through faces, but paying the cost. We share fleeting moments, brief as a sigh, yet crave that connection that reaches the sky. Some offer a smile, while others just stare, but only a few truly show that they care. They listen intently, with hearts open wide, inviting us in, letting feelings collide. Through laughter and sorrow, they walk by our side, their presence a comfort, our fears set aside. So let us treasure those who see through the haze, for they are the light that brightens our days.

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