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 November is the month to remind us to be thankful for the many positive things happening in our lives.

 Hello November. Please be good

  Shallowness of Friendships-  Gradually, you begin to realize how shallow some friendships can be. These are the relationships where people don’t genuinely care about your well-being and are only present when it benefits them. Over time, it becomes clear who truly values you and who is merely superficial in their connection. Recognizing this is painful, but it also teaches an important lesson: it is better to have a few sincere friends than many who only pretend to care. Gradually, you realize how shallow some friendships are, as they don't really care about you.

One should always keep one's back strong, for life often tests us in ways we do not expect. Praise and admiration may come from those we trust, but betrayal can strike just as quietly, from behind. By staying strong, vigilant, and resilient, we prepare ourselves to face both support and deceit with equal composure. It is not about mistrusting everyone, but about understanding that strength, both inner and outer, is the shield that allows us to navigate the unpredictable paths of life. One should always keep one's back strong, because both praise and betrayal come from behind. पीठ हमेशा मजबूत रखनी चाहिए क्यूँकि शाबाशी और धोखा दोनों पीछे से ही मिलते हैं..!

 The phrase “sometimes life comes in full circle” means that situations, experiences, or relationships often return to their starting point,  but with a new perspective or understanding. In other words, events from the past may repeat or reappear in our lives, showing us how much we’ve grown or changed. For example, someone might return to their hometown after many years, work in the same place where they once struggled, or reconnect with people from their past but now with more wisdom and maturity. It means life has a way of bringing us back to where we began, but as different, more experienced individuals.

 There is a word called ulterior motive, and that is always difficult to understand. Human nature is complex, and people often have hidden intentions behind their words and actions. At times, it becomes difficult to understand the real motives of others, as what they show on the surface may not reflect what they truly think or want. Some individuals might act kindly or supportively for personal gain, while others may disguise selfish motives behind a mask of friendship or goodwill. Therefore, it is important to be observant, patient, and cautious when dealing with people. Trust should be built gradually, based on consistent behavior rather than mere appearances or promises. Being careful not only protects us from deceit but also helps us maintain healthy and genuine relationships. It is true that - "It is sometimes difficult to understand the ulterior motive of human beings, so we should be careful."

 If we do not handle ourselves well, it will be difficult to handle the world.  अगर हम खुद को ठीक से नहीं संभाल पाए, तो दुनिया को संभालना मुश्किल हो जाएगा।

Some people dream of reaching the sky, but when they finally get there and look down, they realize no one of their own is left to share their happiness. Success feels empty without genuine people beside you. So, work hard, chase your dreams, but never forget the good hearts that make life worth living. जो लोग आसमान तक पहुंचना चाहते हैं, जब वो ऊपर से नीचे देखते हैं, तो उनके पास अपना कोई नहीं बचता साथ देने या खुशियाँ बाँटने के लिए। इसलिए अच्छे लोगों को कभी जाने मत दो, क्योंकि वही तुम्हारी असली उड़ान की ताकत हैं।

ठोकरें खा कर भी ना संभले तो मुसाफ़िर का नसीब वरना पत्थरों ने तो अपना फर्ज निभा ही दिया। ठोकर खाकर भी न संभले" का मतलब है कि कोई व्यक्ति बार-बार गलतियां करने के बाद भी उससे सीखता नहीं है और सुधार नहीं करता। यह एक प्रसिद्ध कहावत है, जिसका अर्थ है कि यदि कोई व्यक्ति ठोकर खाने के बाद भी खुद को नहीं संभलता तो यह उसकी किस्मत की बात है, क्योंकि रास्ते के पत्थर तो केवल अपना काम कर रहे थे, यानी ठोकर दे रहे थे।

As we near the age of 30, we become very bitter from the life experiences. 

 It is important to evolve in life; otherwise, it creates a lot of problems in the future. 

 Make your priorities very clear; otherwise, you shall be very distracted. 

Sometimes, kindness becomes our weakness when we keep giving chances to those who repeatedly hurt us. People often take advantage of forgiveness, mistaking it for ignorance or dependence. The more opportunities we offer, the more they learn how to break our trust without consequence. It’s important to recognize when to stop not out of hatred, but out of self-respect. Walking away doesn’t mean you’ve failed; it means you’ve finally learned to protect your peace and value yourself more than their excuses. It is true- "If you keep giving opportunities to people, they will keep hurting you. Stop giving those chances."

 Life keeps teaching you the same lesson until you become strong.

 We live in a world where appearances often deceive us. No matter how well we think we know someone, there are always parts of their life hidden from view — their past, their struggles, and the reality they live beyond what they show. People wear masks to protect themselves or to hide their truths, and that makes it difficult to fully trust anyone. Every smile may conceal a secret, every calm face may hide a storm. It reminds us that understanding others requires patience, awareness, and the acceptance that some mysteries may never be revealed. The reality is -'We do not know anyone's past, and we also do not know what life they are leading outside, so appearances are deceptive. We should not trust anyone too much. People are also very secretive.'

Sometimes we do not take the right decisions and we do not make the right choices. We take such impulsive decisions in the heat of the moment and anger that affect us for a very long time. So we should be very careful during difficult moments and not take impulsive steps. 

 Difficult times make us take strong resolutions. To never open the door of emotions in your heart for anyone. Put a full stop to things. 

 Close the doors and windows of your heart, not because it cannot accommodate any human being, but because you cannot get hurt anymore.  It is truly said that- "hurt hone se accha hai hat jao."

Humans have multiple layers within them. It is tough to comprehend those layers.

 We are basic and simple human beings. Some people have more ability to move on. We are very soft, but some humans are very complicated and difficult. 

 We live through the loss, and we learn from the loss.

 We all have different circumstances, compulsions, and lives.

The best gift we can give someone is trust and understanding. Nothing is more precious than it in the world. 

 Decide to detach because attachment always creates problems and troubles. Follow the policy of detachment. 

 It is an era of psychological warfare where people misuse our emotions and trouble us.

 Sometimes humans live a dark life, they speak lies to many people, they hide their realities, and they escape because they avoid confrontation and they do not want their realities to be revealed. They hide from people, and they are a complete mystery. Some humans hide their identities.

People who have too much money lack self-control. They also lack morality. We cannot match their thought level and their lifestyle. It is difficult to comprehend their life.

Do you think everyone has realisations? Not indeed, not everyone realises what emotional and psychological damage they have caused. They would never realise how much time they made the other person suffer. 

 Many times, people enter our lives for their own reasons and they take exit once the reason is fulfilled.  

Emotional closure is when we end all expectations from the other person, and we start to become emotionally distant with them. We let the other person live their life peacefully, and we, as good humans, also move towards peace and healing. 

 When to stay and when to leave? It is better to leave when things are not comprehensible. Some mysteries are better off remaining unsolved. Not everything deserves our attention

 The heart and mind are sacred spaces meant only for communion with God. No matter how close someone may be to us, they can never truly understand the depths of what we feel or think. Sharing those inner emotions with others often invites misunderstanding, judgment, or even betrayal. That which is most personal and profound should remain between oneself and the Almighty. It is in that quiet, private relationship with God that true peace and clarity can be found. By keeping our feelings hidden from people and entrusting them only to God, we protect our spiritual integrity and maintain a purity that the world cannot corrupt. Some things are simply too sacred to be spoken, meant not for people to know, but only for God to witness. Therefore, "Humans should not be given access to our mind or heart. In fact, not even the closest person, Heart and mind, and everything that happens there is for God Almighty alone to know. It has to be between God and you. It should never be between some ...

Sometimes humans are so complicated, and their lives are a mystery. It is always better to walk away from them. 

 Sometimes there is a battle between heart and mind, which affects us severely.

Certain things should end for a good beginning

 May the one who made you suffer in silence suffer incessantly one day.

Sometimes, a moment, an incident, a day can change everything forever. 

 Either stand strong or maintain good terms with every human being. 

 A school teacher said one day to the students before they left the school.  1. Make yourself so strong that you do not need anyone else. 2. Maintain good terms with everyone, at least hi and hello 3. Always remember that every problem has a solution, have faith that things will be solved if not now, then in the future. 

 Sometimes humans do not know the magnitude and intensity of their actions. They never realise how much their actions can hurt other human beings.

 Some humans come into our lives for temporary reasons, and they know why they came. They leave because they were sure in their mind that they would leave one day, so they lack emotional connection.

 If we want diamond around us, we should be like gold.

 Diamond does not change so if you want gold to be in your life be a diamond

 We are preparing for life while forgetting to live it.

Humans who do not overlook certain things, and those who are more ethical and moral, hinder their own progress. 

 Sometimes, more ethics and morality create problems.

 Trust will break and hearts will be broken, but we have to keep some things unspoken and move on with silence.

 Some humans are houses of lies, and one should abandon that house as soon as possible and never enter it again.

 Sometimes we express our emotions outwardly, and it creates problems.

 Too much ethics will not work; it keeps us in one place.

In Friendship, we need to do a lot of unnecessary things, too.

Unspoken Truths Mistakes will happen, and trust will fade, But silence is the price we’ve paid. Words once spoken, they can't return — Some things are lessons we must learn. The heart may ache, the soul may cry, But not all truths should reach the sky. Sometimes it’s better to keep the peace, Let certain secrets find their release. We break, we fall, we hurt, we mend, But some things don’t need to be said, my friend. For in the quiet, we often find The strength to leave some things behind.

 Memory torments human beings. It tortures human beings. 

 There is always something that we probably do not know

William Shakespeare Only God knows what is in the heart of a human.  Therefore, humans can only comprehend/judge the actions. No one knows the mind's construction on the face.

On this day, please remember that God will always be your light and good friends will never leave your side. Today, take comfort in knowing that God will always be your source of light, guiding you through every step of your journey. His presence is steadfast, offering peace and strength in all circumstances. And remember, true friends will always be there for you standing by your side, supporting you through both the good times and the difficult ones. With faith and loyal companionship, you are never alone.

 Jo Insaan Ki Kadar Nahi Karta Bhagwan Uski Kadar Nahi Karta Hai  "जो इंसान की कदर नहीं करता, भगवान उसकी कदर नहीं करता है।" इसका मतलब है कि इंसान को पहले इंसानियत और दूसरे इंसानों की इज़्ज़त करनी चाहिए। अगर हम दूसरों को नजरअंदाज़ करें, उनके जज़्बात को चोट पहुँचाएँ या उनके मूल्य को नहीं समझें, तो ऊपर वाला (या कुदरत) भी हमें वैसी ही अनदेखी और तिरस्कार देता है। यह जीवन एक दर्पण की तरह होता है — जैसा व्यवहार हम दूसरों के साथ करते हैं, वैसा ही हमारे साथ भी होता है।

Agar samay pe peeche nahi hatoge, toh samay se bohot peeche ho jaoge.... This does not apply to life alone, but to people, too.  It is necessary to take a step back from the wrong people at the right time; otherwise, you will go backward in life. 

 Remember that life has to go on.

 They can break your trust, they can break your heart, but they can never break your spitits and they can never break you. 

 Be optimistic and live your life

 Keep Smiling because no one cares how you feel

We are not forever young We are not forever healthy, and we will not be forever wealthy Every time someone will not be there to support us... So let us be grateful for what we have let us be humble as much as we can

We have no control over the actions, decisions, and choices of the other person. They are at complete liberty to live their life the way they want because, at the end of the day, everybody is a human being with personal choices and free will, and we have no control over it.  "Humare haath Mai Kuch Nahi Hai, Everything is up to God and Destiny"

When people have money, they have an independent way of life, and they know how to live alone; they are mentally strong, so they become arrogant. 

 Life teaches you all the time, so be prepared to learn at all times.

 Know your value and move on 

 Remember, politicians can read your mind. They know how to play with your emotions, and they act accordingly. They are also image-conscious and they will never let their realities reveal. They live a dual life, and they act according to the person. So be careful. Politicians and actors have many faces...

 Welcome October Please be good 

 Free your mind and live your life

 Lean to be Strong or Learn to Suffer.... better learn to be strong 

 It is life and everything will happen in this life 

It is better to leave then to get hurt 

 We should never ask for more space in anyone's life; if we do so, then we lose the space we already have in their life.

 Some people will come into life and they will leave us in the middle. They were not with us since birth and they will not be there when we will leave this earth. They came in between and they left in between, so we should leave them to their life. Let them live their life and we will live our life. 

 We need to understand the fact that we can't alter what has already happened, but we have the ability to grow and improve, becoming a better version of ourselves 

 Our elders, teachers, and mentors can see things that we can't. Their guidance is always wise and accurate. Gratitude always to them.

 Haste Makes Waste, and Panic only creates Chaos..!

It is rightly said," Never get carried away by your  emotions." We must control our emotions and expressions when we are feeling low. 

 We might not have changed but the world around us keeps changing drastically 

 And gradually we realise that after a certain age, we cannot behave like a child. We have to become wise and act judiciously...

 Although we didn't change, but the world around us kept changing drastically.  

 Last day of September 

 Happiness comes from within you; do not search for it elsewhere. 

 Remember that Life has to Go On 

 Sometimes things are very camouflaged, so one should be careful.

 We, as humans, should never be blind with eyes wide open. We must see the realities and take a step back as soon as we realise something fishy. 

 Somethings people are capable of anything and everything 

 Every person you meet is written in your destiny to teach you something

The only person you should trust is yourself 

No matter how knowledgeable, religious or spiritual a person is, if they are not a good human being then it is all worthless.  

 Sometimes people are too sensitive to criticism. They are unbelievable, and I wonder where they get the courage to do all such things 

 A year can truly change your perspective about a person and towards life.

 Time is very powerful, you won't realise how a year can change a friendship and bring it to the verge of end. 

 In the beginning everyone makes you feel special but , later you realize the reality 

 One Should Never Ignore Divine signs and red flags in people. If done so, we suffer in life

 Friendship Day is a celebration of the bonds that bring warmth, support, and joy into our lives. True friendships are not just about sharing happy moments; they are tested in times of disagreement and conflict. Misunderstandings are natural, but what defines a genuine friendship is the willingness of both friends to reconcile, forgive, and move forward. A true friend values the relationship more than their ego. Even after an argument, they are ready to listen, understand, and make amends. This mutual effort to restore harmony strengthens the bond, making it deeper and more resilient. On this Friendship Day, let us cherish the friends who choose understanding over pride and unity over distance because if reconciliation is never an option, it was never a true friendship to begin with. So, reach out to that friend you miss, and let forgiveness pave the way for a fresh start. After all, friendships that survive storms are the ones that truly last a lifetime. So, let this Friendship D...

 Keep Smiling because nothing is permanent.

 Stay Strong because no one cares

We care too much while the other person does not care at all 

 Life is unpredictable and one is unsure for it.

 No one takes responsibility for their actions these days

 Memories fade gradually

 No matter how much we care for others, it all goes vain one day. 

 Humans change very fast  

 Emotions changes very fast

 Life has phases

 Bye June, Thanks for the lessons 

 Life goes on 

 Be happy not because everything is good but because you can see the good in everything

 Remember that life has to go on

Know that not everyone is meant to stay, as some are meant to teach us some lessons that we did not learn earlier

We learn a lot about life when we take wrong decisions in a hurry

 Understand the fact that nothing is permanent. 

 Life has to go on with or without some temporary people 

 Learn to understand that the fact that certain chapters of life end because of destiny and that is life. 

 Life will keep moving forward as time waits for no one

 All the hardest, coldest people you meet were once as soft as water and that is the tragedy of living 

Each year, as we add another candle to the cake, we're gently reminded of the fleeting nature of time. They mark more than just age, they highlight growth, change, memories, and the moments that have shaped us. It's a pause in the busy flow of life to reflect on where we've been, who we've become, and the journey still ahead.  With every celebration comes reflection that is the laughter shared, the lessons learned, the people we have met, and the ones we have lost. It's a chance to pause and look both backwards and forward, honoring the journey so far and embracing the path ahead. In the rush of everyday life, birthdays offer a moment of stillness, a quiet reminder to be present, to be grateful, and to make each year count.