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The Lessons We Never Asked For

“कभी-कभी जीवन हमें ऐसे पाठ पढ़ाता है, जिन्हें हम सीखना नहीं चाहते, लेकिन वही हमें बेहतर बना देते हैं।”

"Sometimes life teaches you lessons that you never want to learn to change you for better." 

Unwanted Lessons, Better Selves

The line means that life often puts us through difficult and uncomfortable experiences that we do not wish to face, but these very lessons help transform us into better, wiser, and stronger human beings.

Life does not always teach us through happiness and comfort. Many times, it teaches through pain, failure, and disappointment lessons we never wanted to learn. In the moment, these experiences feel unfair and hard to accept. Yet, with time, we realize that they reshape our thinking and strengthen our character. They teach us patience, resilience, and empathy, and help us let go of what is unnecessary. What once seemed like suffering slowly turns into a source of growth. Thus, the unwanted lessons of life quietly change us and guide us toward becoming better versions of ourselves.

इस पंक्ति का अर्थ है कि जीवन कई बार हमें ऐसे अनुभवों से गुज़ारता है जो हमें अच्छे नहीं लगते या जिन्हें हम सीखना नहीं चाहते। फिर भी, वही कठिन सबक हमें बदलते हैं और हमें एक बेहतर, समझदार और मज़बूत इंसान बनाते हैं।

जीवन हमेशा सुख और आराम के रास्ते से हमें नहीं सिखाता। कई बार वह हमें दुख, असफलता और निराशा जैसे अनुभव देता है, जिनसे हम बचना चाहते हैं। उस समय हमें लगता है कि यह सब हमारे साथ क्यों हो रहा है, पर समय के साथ हम समझते हैं कि यही अनचाहे सबक हमें भीतर से मज़बूत बनाते हैं। वे हमें धैर्य, सहनशीलता और समझ सिखाते हैं। जो परिस्थितियाँ हमें तोड़ती हुई लगती हैं, वही हमें नया रूप देती हैं। इस तरह जीवन के कठिन अनुभव हमें बदलकर एक बेहतर इंसान बना देते हैं।

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