The Limits of Changing Others

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 Paths Chosen, Not Imposed

After a certain age, we cannot change anyone, as people begin to live according to their own wishes and free will. Their lives are guided by personal experiences, beliefs, and values that shape their thinking over time. They are governed by their own minds and driven by the choices they make, not by the expectations or desires of others. While guidance and support can be offered, real change only happens when a person chooses it for themselves. Understanding this helps us respect boundaries, accept differences, and focus on our own growth rather than trying to reshape someone else’s path.

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