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कई बार हम लोगों को समझने में बहुत देर कर देते हैं, और जब तक हम उन्हें समझ पाते हैं, तब तक वे हमें बहुत नुकसान पहुँचा देते हैं। हम उनसे जुड़ जाते हैं, और वे हमें छोड़कर चले जाते हैं और निराश कर देते हैं।
इसीलिए कभी भी किसी को जल्दी अपना नहीं बनाना चाहिए और दोस्ती सोच-समझकर करनी चाहिए।

Meaning: Many times, we take too long to understand people, and by the time we truly know them, they have already caused us a lot of pain. We become emotionally attached to them, and then they leave us behind and disappoint us. That is why we should never make someone our own too quickly and should choose our friendships thoughtfully and carefully.

This thought means that we often take time to truly understand people, but before we can do so, they may already hurt us. We become emotionally attached, and when they leave or disappoint us, the pain becomes deeper. Therefore, it teaches us to not trust or accept people too quickly and to build friendships wisely and thoughtfully.

In life, understanding people is a slow process, but emotional attachment often happens quickly. Many times, before we can recognize someone’s true nature, we allow them close to our hearts. By the time reality becomes clear, the damage is already done, leaving us hurt and disappointed. This experience teaches an important lesson: relationships should not be rushed. Friendship and trust need time, patience, and careful judgment. When we choose our bonds thoughtfully, we protect our hearts and create relationships that are stronger, safer, and more meaningful.

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