The Responsibility of Beginnings

"And once the person starts the chapter it naturally comes with some responsibility but people don't take it And once the person starts a chapter of friendship or anything we invariably start keeping expectations And it's not wrong to have minimum expectations but to hurt others feelings in an unimaginable way is cold betrayal."

Meaning: Once we begin any chapter in life, especially a chapter of friendship, it naturally brings with it certain responsibilities. With connection comes expectation, and having even the smallest expectations is not wrong. What is truly wrong is ignoring those responsibilities and hurting someone’s feelings in an unimaginable way, for that becomes nothing but a cold betrayal.

These lines convey that when we begin any relationship especially friendship we also take on an unspoken responsibility. Relationships naturally create expectations, even if they are small. While expecting honesty and care is not wrong, ignoring that responsibility and hurting someone deeply is a form of betrayal. The lines emphasize accountability and emotional sensitivity in human bonds.

Every new chapter we open with someone brings hope, trust, and a silent promise of care. Friendship or any bond is not just about shared moments; it carries the responsibility to respect the other person’s feelings. Expectations arise naturally, not because we demand too much, but because connection itself creates emotional investment. When someone chooses to ignore this and acts in ways that shatter trust, the pain feels like a cold betrayal. It reminds us that starting a relationship is easy, but honoring it with honesty and empathy is what truly defines our character. If we cannot carry the responsibility that comes with closeness, we should not open chapters that we are not ready to protect.

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