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When Paths Cross

 “Sometimes the actions of people are not related to us; they are just living their lives by their own rules and on their own terms, and we have no role to play in it. But once our lives overlap, we have to assume responsibility.”

Meaning: People often act according to their own rules and terms, and many of their actions have nothing to do with us. We have no role to play in how they choose to live their lives. But once our paths cross and our lives begin to overlap, we must accept the responsibility that comes with being part of each other’s journey.

These lines express that every person has their own way of living, shaped by personal choices and values, and not everything they do is about us. However, when our lives become connected—through friendship, love, or any relationship—our actions begin to affect each other. At that point, we must take responsibility for how our choices impact the other person.

In the vast journey of life, each individual walks on a path guided by their own rules and priorities. Most of the time, what people do has little to do with us; they are simply living their stories. But when two paths cross and lives begin to overlap, a new bond is formed, and with it comes responsibility. Our words, decisions, and behavior can now shape another person’s emotions and peace. This truth reminds us that while independence is important, connection demands care. Once we choose to share space in someone’s life, we must also choose to be mindful, respectful, and accountable for the impact we create.

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